One of the most common questions we get is: Should I book an all-inclusive resort or go the boutique luxury route?
The truth is… both styles of travel can be amazing, and both can be disappointing. It really depends on what you’re looking for. Let’s break it down honestly — the good, the bad, and the “you get what you pay for” side of resort life.
All-Inclusives: What You’re Really Signing Up For
There’s a reason all-inclusive resorts are so popular. On paper, it sounds like a dream: one upfront cost, unlimited food and drinks, endless pools, activities, entertainment, and you don’t have to think about a thing.
And when you find a great one — it really is that good. Some luxury all-inclusives offer elevated dining, thoughtful service, and a polished experience that feels indulgent without nickel-and-diming you.
But here’s the catch: not all all-inclusives are created equal.
At many mid-tier properties, you’ll run into buffet fatigue, watered-down cocktails, and a vibe that feels more like “mass tourism” than a relaxing getaway.
Crowds are common, and service can sometimes be stretched thin when there are hundreds (or thousands) of guests to attend to.
You often get what you pay for. A $200/night “all-inclusive steal” probably isn’t going to deliver the same experience as a $700/night luxury property.
All-inclusives work best if:
✔️ You want convenience and predictability
✔️ You’re traveling with family or a group where variety and flexibility are key
✔️ You love the idea of lounging by the pool all day with a drink in hand, and food always available
Boutique Luxury Resorts: The Personal Touch
Now let’s flip to the boutique luxury experience. Think fewer rooms, personalized service, curated dining, and design-forward spaces that feel like they were made for Instagram (in the best way).
Boutique luxury resorts tend to focus on quality over quantity. You won’t have 12 restaurants to choose from, but the two or three that are there will likely blow you away. You might not have nightly shows or giant pool parties, but you’ll have peaceful spaces, thoughtful details, and staff that actually remembers your name.
These resorts shine when:
✔️ You want a romantic escape or a honeymoon vibe
✔️ You value service, atmosphere, and curated details over quantity
✔️ You’d rather explore the local area and use the resort as a retreat instead of the entire vacation
Of course, boutique luxury comes with a higher price tag — and sometimes fewer “extras” included (think à la carte dining or activities). But the overall vibe is usually calmer, more sophisticated, and less cookie-cutter.
The “You Get What You Pay For” Factor
Here’s where we’ll be blunt: price usually reflects experience.
A budget all-inclusive will give you convenience but probably won’t wow you.
A mid-tier boutique hotel may feel more special but could lack resort-style amenities.
A high-end all-inclusive or luxury boutique stay? That’s where the magic really happens.
When you’re deciding between the two, it often comes down to your priorities. Are you looking for sheer convenience and endless options, or do you want intimacy, design, and personalized attention?
Our Honest Take
We love both styles — but for different reasons.
When we’re traveling with groups, family, or want that “everything taken care of” vibe, a high-quality all-inclusive can be perfect.
When it’s just the two of us and we want a more intentional, romantic, or “special” escape, boutique luxury wins every time.
If you go the all-inclusive route, just do your homework. Look at reviews, photos, and see what past guests are saying about the food, service, and vibe. If you’re considering boutique, be ready to splurge a little more — but know you’re paying for that elevated, curated experience.
At the end of the day, there’s no wrong answer — just what fits your travel style best for that trip.
